{"id":1767,"date":"2016-10-07T12:01:48","date_gmt":"2016-10-07T16:01:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/?p=1767"},"modified":"2017-04-10T13:18:15","modified_gmt":"2017-04-10T17:18:15","slug":"which-money-values-does-your-child-have","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/1767\/which-money-values-does-your-child-have\/","title":{"rendered":"Which Money Values Does Your Child Have?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>What kind of money value does your child or teen have?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are they like most these days and just assume that money is owed to them and that they can just go out and buy the coolest, newest gadgets on a whim?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be embarrassed if that is true for your child, the fact that you\u2019re even reading this article shows that you\u2019re a parent who actually cares about your child and their mental and financial wellbeing!<\/p>\n<p>And even if your child is not like that, read on, I think <strong>you\u2019re going to find this very interesting indeed!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So the other day I was searching through YouTube when I came across this incredible video (and by \u2018incredible\u2019 I mean that I could not believe my eyes, these kids actually feel this way! YIKES!)<\/p>\n<p>I clicked on the video to watch it and I couldn\u2019t stop watching, my mouth was literally hanging open in pure awe! Did these kids REALLY feel like that?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Honestly, you have to see the video to believe it! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/z2t1uzkdRks\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><strong>There are a couple of things that these kids address:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>That they honestly feel the need to wear the right clothes to fit in.<\/li>\n<li>That they feel very unhappy, even threatened, when another kid is wearing the same clothes as them.<\/li>\n<li>That having a lot of money is the most important thing for them and their \u2018status\u2019!<\/li>\n<li>That those who have no money or little money are simply not worthy.<\/li>\n<li>That going to a spa weekly is a \u2018normal\u2019 thing!<\/li>\n<li>Etc&#8230;.. (Oh trust me the list goes on and on and gets more and more unbelievable as it goes!)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Honestly, I was flabbergasted and embarrassed really <\/strong>to even be a part of a society that allowed these values to even appear as a norm!<\/p>\n<p>We need to fix this, sure it may seem funny to watch, but it\u2019s actually a very real and very scary reality that is going to have some very nasty adverse side effects!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are some things that these kids are missing:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>That everyone is of value.<\/li>\n<li>That having lots of money is not about \u2018status\u2019 but about being a master of your own wealth and financial independence.<\/li>\n<li>That when others dress like you it\u2019s a compliment, not a threat!<\/li>\n<li>That helping others is a normal and good thing, no one ever need be looked upon as \u2018beneath\u2019 them!<\/li>\n<li>That it is NOT normal to go to the spa on a weekly basis, that it\u2019s a special treat (sure they can go weekly, but not see it as \u2018normal\u2019 but as a special treat that they deserve because they have worked hard to pay for it!)<\/li>\n<li>Etc&#8230;.. (This list goes on and on too!)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We seriously need to make sure our kids are not living the same values that these kids in the video above are living.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How can<\/strong><strong>\u00a0you find out where your child\u2019s money values lie?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Easy, go to my blog, watch the video with them and then ask them these questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How does it make you feel to watch these kids?<\/li>\n<li>Do you feel the same way they do?<\/li>\n<li>Do you think it\u2019s important to have a lot of money so you \u2018fit in\u2019 with the \u2018popular\u2019 group?<\/li>\n<li>Is money bad, or is how people use and think about money bad?<\/li>\n<li>How can money be used for good?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Please do take the time to go and take a look at this video, trust me, your child needs to see it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Their eyes need to be fully open so they can live a financially secure life and still have a great life value that NEVER devalues anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>We want to always be proud of our kids, I\u2019m proud of mine and I know you\u2019re proud of yours. (Again, you wouldn\u2019t be still reading this article if you weren\u2019t a parent who seriously loves your child and wants to empower them the best way you can.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m proud of you, and your child for having you as their role model.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Enjoy the video above and make the most\u00a0of it, start that conversation with your child!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s to you and your child&#8217;s success with love<\/strong>,<\/p>\n<p>Cheers\u2026Amanda van der Gulik\u2026Excited Life Enthusiast! ;o)<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> Make sure to <strong><a title=\"Facebook - Teaching Children About Money Fans\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TeachingChildrenAboutMoneyFans\/\" target=\"_blank\">click here<\/a><\/strong> to pop on over to my Facebook page to watch even more incredible videos like these&#8230; (Don&#8217;t forget to &#8216;Like&#8217; us on Facebook, to stay in the &#8216;know&#8217;)<\/p>\n<p><a style=\"color: #ff4b33;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TeachingChildrenAboutMoneyFans\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-1769\" title=\"Facebook - Teaching Children About Money Fans Page\" src=\"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/TCAM-facebook-fanpage.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"621\" height=\"458\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/TCAM-facebook-fanpage.png 767w, http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/TCAM-facebook-fanpage-300x221.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 621px) 100vw, 621px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>P. P. S.\u00a0Did you find this article helpful?<\/strong> If so, then please help me empower more kids, teens and their families by leaving me your own comments below and clicking the &#8216;like&#8217; button and &#8216;sharing&#8217; it with your friends on Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, Pinterest, etc. Thank-you for helping me empower more Healthy Wealth Mentality kiddos. We need them! \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Together we can raise kids and teens who are money savvy and get to\u00a0follow their dreams because they know how to handle and value their money&#8230;and not come back crawling home to mom and dad to get them out of financial trouble!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-2174 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/like-1314734_640-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2171\" src=\"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/thank-you-970920_640-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2170\" src=\"http:\/\/www.teachingchildrenaboutmoney.com\/blog\/wp-content\/share-1314738_640-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What kind of money value does your child or teen have? 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